Are you doing a certain theme for your
wedding? Need some guidance to get your ideas organized? Well let us take the
time to go over the basics to help sort things out for your special day!
Pick your Theme
I know that this step seems the most obvious, but it can also be the toughest. Your theme should be something that both you and your groom love. If you need help thinking of different possible theme ideas for your big day, ask yourself some of these questions:
- What
is something (or even somewhere) that
you both enjoy?
- Do you both love a certain time of the year? Or even, would you like to plan your Wedding around the season that it’s in?
- Did you meet in college/high school?
- Have the same favorite author/book/movie?
Once you have chosen the perfect theme for you, you can then go ahead and choose the perfect venue, invitations, favors, décor & so much more!
Depending on your theme you may or
may not have to focus on a certain time of the year. For example, if you chose a Fall theme or even
a Halloween theme wedding, then sometime in October/Early November would be the
best date for you. However, if you are doing a College theme wedding for
example, the time of the year may not be as important. Brainstorm together and
really think of a venue that will really transport you and your guests into the
atmosphere you were dreaming about!
Also, if your venue depicts a
certain theme, such as a library, a literary theme wedding may be a great
choice! Or if you would like your event
on the beach, the “beach theme” or a “tropical theme” would probably be your
best choice. Remember however, if you
choose a venue first, this will more than likely depict your Event Date.
It's All In The Details
The Colors:
- When you picture your theme what colors stand out the most? You should at least have 1 primary color, 1 Secondary color, and an Accent color.
- Some ways to help you pick these colors are:
- Complementary Colors
(these colors are opposite each other on the color wheel, such as blue
and orange, or red and green.)
- Analogous Colors (these
colors lie next to each other on the wheel, such as green, lime green,
blue-green.)
- Monochromatic Colors (these colors have variations of the same tone, such as bright red, dark red, etc.)
- Once you have picked these colors please keep them in mind when making your decision for the other details of your wedding. For example your table clothe colors, napkins, centerpieces, flowers, and even for some brides, makeup and nails should be taken into consideration.
The Attire:
- Your theme will also directly affect what you & your bridal party will be wearing on the big day! If you decide to go with a beach theme & your Wedding will be on the beach in the middle of July, you do not want to be wearing a large “Cinderella” gown, filled with tulle & layers. You will want a light, flowing dress that is perfect for a warm summer day! This goes for your Bridesmaids, & even your Groom & his Groomsmen as well! They will want something flowing, something light & something they can breathe in.
- Also, think about your colors as well! If you are planning a Christmas Theme
wedding for example, having hot pink dresses may not be your best option.
The Food & The Wedding Cake
- The Food & the Wedding Cake can also be
an intricate part of your theme for your event! The time of year, the temperature and
the location itself can determine what you would like to serve, and what
the flavor and the look of your cake will be! If you are having your wedding on a hot
summer day, try not to serve as many hot items… if at all, or just the
opposite for a cold winter’s day!
- Also, don’t forget to incorporate your colors, flowers & intricate details to your Wedding Cake!
The Flowers:
- Your colors will have a direct effect on
your flower choices and your flower options will vary depending on the
time of the year.
- Get creative with them! Add fun materials to your flowers or even have them created with different materials. For example, you can have some flowers in your bouquet made out of the pages of your favorite book (a great idea if you’re doing a literary themed wedding).
- Set the mood of your theme right from the beginning! Incorporating your theme to your invitations will allow your guests to know what your event is all about and possibly what to wear!
- Now
there is nothing wrong with just using numbers to label your tables! But if you would like to do something unique,
you can label your tables in a way that correlates with your theme. For example, we planned a Wedding that had a “Chicago”
theme this past summer. To incorporate
their theme in their table numbers, they named each table a restaurant that
brought them fond memories of their relationship that you could only find in
Chicago: The Signature Room (where
they got engaged). It was a very cute
idea that all of the guests adored!
- Giving out Wedding Favors is not a required detail, but it could be a nice enhancement to your tables, it is a very nice gesture for thanking your guests for attending, and even better… it could incorporate your theme in a very cute way!
- Looking for unique & cute favors to give your guests? We love www.etsy.com!
These are just a
few of many details that you can incorporate your theme into! When you decide on your theme, remember to
encompass all of your event elements with these details so that your atmosphere
on your Wedding Day is exactly what you envisioned!
BBFN (Bridal Bliss For Now),
Olivia
