Until the Last Petal Falls

After the cost of the venue, flowers are the second highest budgeted expense in a wedding. Brides and Groom’s will spend $3000 to $35000 on the production of their event. The fairy tale can be old world romance with lush floral, or a modern stylish design of candles and symmetry, or the current trend of crystals and manzanita branches. No matter what the vision is for you wedding day, when the celebration ends the ballroom is still adorned with the remnants of the glamour that was.

The question on what to do with the flowers after the event is almost never addressed. So, here are few tips and ideas to discuss with your florist or designer:


Can the floral centerpieces be taken home by your guests?
Some floral vases are considered rentals and the floral studio will return and pick them up. You may be charged if all of the vases are not there. So, make sure that the floral staged on top of these vases are portable.


What to do with the flowers?
You can decide to give centerpieces to your immediate family, or friends, who may have been a great asset in planning your wedding. You might want to take a couple of them to your honeymoon suite, or at least have your parents enjoy them at their homes.

How about donating them to local hospitals?
Each hospital, senior center, charity or school will most likely have a policy about floral donations. It is best to check with them to see if they can accept your floral pieces. If they are willing to accept your generous donation, keep in mind you will be responsible for delivering them. In that case, you might want to ask your venue if it is okay to leave the floral overnight. In the morning you will need to assign someone to pick them up from the ballroom and deliver them to your charity of choice.


Still have more?
If you still have floral left after distributing as much as you can, what happens? The unfortunate truth is, they will be trashed. If you want them recycled, check with your florist or designer to see if they offer recycling service. If they do not, contact your local recycling company to see if it is something they can accommodate.

I hope this helps you in planning the end of your floral journey. Your floral vision will live in perpetuity in your wedding pictures and video. Enjoy them for as long as you can.

BBFN (Bridal Bliss for Now),
Olivia

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Top 5 Wedding Budget Savers

The average wedding in Chicago costs $32,000. This is where you stop and pause and wonder if there might be a less expensive way to go about this. Imagine what you can do with $32,000?? Makes you wonder….. Although the economy is coming back slowly it is still not the time to be frivolous and go overboard on the spending for your wedding.

There are many ways that you can save on your wedding budget but today we are going to focus on what we feel are the top 5 budget crunchers and can make the biggest impact on your bottom line budget.

Cut the guest List:
Each time you add a name to your invitation list, you're increasing your budget significantly. It's not just the catering costs, but also the extra centerpieces, favors, rentals, etc. Don't invite anyone you haven't talked to in five years. Don't feel obligated to let single people bring a date. Avoid feeling pressured to invite all your work colleagues. And don't let your friends bring their children. You can also decide to eliminate categories like "relatives more distant than first cousins" or "friends from volunteer work." By not inviting anyone from that group, you'll help avoid hurt feelings.

Use more greenery than flowers in your centerpieces:
Instead of using all flowers for your centerpiece décor you can also opt to use elegant greenery such as ivy, vines and banana leaves to enhance your centerpiece without the cost of floral. Not only does this reduce the requirement of flowers, but it also adds color to your piece.


Buy Flowers that are in-season:
If you opt for an elaborate floral décor then it is advisable to choose flowers that are in season. Some perennial flowers include roses, lilies and orchids. Out of season flowers, or exotic flowers, can end up costing you double the cost of flowers that are local or in season.

Offer, beer, wine and signature cocktails instead of a full bar:
Full hosted bars can be expensive. Most venues will charge anywhere from $25.00 to $45.00 per person for a 4-5 hour bar, and this is accessed even if your guests do not drink. By offering your guests a choice of beer, wine and signature cocktails versus a full bar you give your guests an opportunity to enjoy an alcoholic beverage during the event, while lowering your bar tab considerably, and you do not appear to be cheap.


Save postage on your wedding invitations:
Forgo the inner envelope and blotter paper, which are leftover relics from times when ink needed time to dry, and people wanted a pristine envelope. The advance in the internet has made it possible to have your guests reply on-line rather than having a reply card. Not only will you save money from the printer bill, it should also reduce your postage expense.

This is a once in a lifetime experience and you should feel comfortable with the decisions made in regards to the budget. If I can leave you with one tip regarding your budget it would be: whether you have $10,000 or $100,000 or more to spend on your wedding, the reception venue and catering services are two items that will cost you the most. No amount of cost comparing and budgeting will save you more money then simply reducing your guest list.

BBFN (Bridal Bliss for Now),
Olivia

Always a Bridesmaid, how to win an award as “Best Supporting Bridesmaid”

Whether it’s your sister, grade school friend or college roommate, some important woman (or man) in your life has invited you to be a part of their bridal party. If you’ve ever been part of a wedding party you know this role comes with fun times, and responsibility.

Here are my top 5 tips on how to best support your bride to be:


1. Start Saving – There is no getting around it, standing up in a wedding is going to cost some money (dress, shoes, showers, etc.). If you say yes to being in a wedding, you are saying yes to the cost of being in the wedding as well. Be realistic about your budget, and if you have any concerns talk to the bride to be before accepting the role. Once you’re on board, spend with a smile. This is someone you love, and she would do (or has done) the same for you.

2. Offer an Opinion – when asked to do so. Respect the decisions the bride feels confidence in making on her own, and offer honest opinions when she asks for them (also remember that she may not take ALL of your suggestions)

3. Lend a Helping Hand – A bride’s to do list is never-ending, or so it seems. As her big day approaches reach out to her, see what you can do. It may be tying ribbons, sorting through contracts to make a contact info. sheet, or going out for a glass (ok, bottle) of wine to de-stress. The bride might not want to ask for help, since you’ve done so much already, but she will appreciate you offering more than you know.

4. Run Interference – Unfortunately there are always going to be people involved in a wedding who cause a bit of trouble. We all have the complaining cousin, opinionated sister-in-law or friend who forgets this day is not about them. Be a buffer between the troublemaker and bride. She has enough to worry about. You may end up with a headache from listening to all that complaining, but someday karma will send the favor back to you.

5. Have Fun – Be her right hand (and left, when necessary), through her wedding day prep, ceremony and all of the formal activities. When it comes time for the reception, kick back and have fun. The bride will most likely be most relaxed during this time, and will take away many happy memories of her guests celebrating the love between her and her new husband.

Abide by all of these guidelines and you are sure to win “Best Supporting Bridesmaid” in our book!

BBFN (Bridal Bliss for Now),
Olivia

What to Wear: The Mom Edition

Today Event Architect Adel Domingo is going to help the moms (of the bride and groom) prepare to search for their wedding day attire. She offers some great tips, and personal experience. Take it away Adel...

What kind of dress do you wear?


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From my personal experience, picking out my dress was an easy one. It was pure luck and great timing. I didn’t know what style I was and it turned out to be a combination of modern and elegant and I narrowed down three dresses within 45 minutes. What was truly important for me is to getting my future daughter-in-law’s approval and that my dress was ultra-comfortable and I got both.

What is your style – modern, glamorous, classic, romantic, elegant, over-the-top, or are you not even sure? If you do choose a dress, it is highly advisable not to choose anything that can be considered over-the-top. Even if your son or daughter is a rock star or Lady Gaga, your dress should be just at least one level simpler. Your dress should not look similar to the bride’s, or the other Mom’s dress for obvious reasons, but you also do not want to clash with the bride’s vision. There are thousands of dresses to choose from so the following tips may help you narrow down your choices:

Modern – look for clean lines with a unique neckline, color should be unique and accessories do not have to match the dress. Your dress should be easily worn again at a modern art museum gala or even another wedding with simpler jewelry and accessories.

Glamorous – a toned down version of going to the Oscars is the look for you. Do not show too much skin, but explore dresses with one shoulder strap or a halter top. You need not borrow your diamonds from Tiffany or Harry Winston, but diamonds, or similar gems, should make great accessories. Again, this can be worn again at a posh event where you can lose the jacket or shawl.

Classic – this style of dress is a simple style but can be in a striking color like salmon or teal. A suit or non-trendy dress will suffice with pearls and low heels or sandals. This outfit can be worn again at a fundraiser, luncheon or a holiday party by just changing the accessories.


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Romantic – Silk, chiffon and ruffles are good features to look for and you want to pull out that old broach or the earrings your hubby gave you for your first anniversary to add as sentiments. This can be worn again at a fundraising event or wedding anniversary party.

Elegant – A mixture or taffeta, silk and lace might be involved, a jacket or shawl to cover the arms, pearls and diamonds are the perfect jewelry. The skirt or bottom half may be a simple cut but the jacket or top may be slightly off the shoulder. Like the other dresses, this can worn again at special occasions with a slight change of jewelry or jackets.


photo courtesy of theknot.com

If you don’t know what style looks best on you, and you have no experience being the Mom of the Groom or Bride, do what a bride does. Make an appointment at a bridal salon and try on several gowns of style and color. Do you need to buy one as soon as possible? Yes, if the wedding is less than six months away and need to be ordered. If you are shopping at a department store, you can buy it right then and there.

If you decide to wear a shorter dress, make sure it is knee-length or below. Since your feet will show more, make sure to wear a visually appealing pair of shoes. It is also not unusual these days to have a second pair to change into for comfort after a few dances.

You can still apply the above styles even for casual beach or outdoor weddings. You may replace the material with cotton, silk or gauzy, colorful textures but keep the elegance of the event in mind.

This is one of the most important days of your child’s life and you should look beautiful. You want to look “presentable” but in your own style and personality. What is the big deal about the Mom’s dress? Your dress is just as important as the bridal parties’ wardrobe, and other than the bride and groom, the parents’ role is highly respected when their children are taking this huge step in their lives. This is not her basketball game or his track meet you’re going to, this is THE day.


Final Tip (and it's an important one):
The final tip is once you have narrowed down your choices to a few dresses, ask the bride to help you choose. It will make her feel respected and if it happens to be your future daughter-in-law, she will definitely appreciate it. If it’s your daughter, she will appreciate any time she has with you before she officially leaves your home, and that her opinion matters. If it’s your son, just show your final set of choices by showing him photos even if he has an opinion or not. He will still appreciate your enthusiasm and participation on his important day.

Thanks Adel!

What do you think, brides will you share this list with your mom? Do you have an idea of what she should wear?

BBFN (Bridal Bliss for Now),
Olivia

Orchid Resorts & Escapes: Beautifully Unexpected Honeymoons

Planning the perfect wedding has been all encompassing, you are so looking forward to the honeymoon, but where will you go? You can always rely on the all time favorites such as Hawaii, the Caribbean or Mexico, but we want to introduce you to some secrets that are out there. We turned to our friends at Orchid Resorts & Escapes to provide us some insight on unique honeymoon locations. Their small boutique properties are a unique place for a romantic hideaway, simply a place to breathe and relax.
Contact Oliveaire for reservation information, and get special perks just for our readers

Here are our top seven lesser known places, sure to make many future top 10 lists:

Deer Valley Chalet – Deer Valley, Utah
For those winter wedding and ski enthusiasts this is a must see. Located within a private gated community just moments from Park City, Deer Valley Chalet, is one of the most dynamic properties in ski country. Snuggle in and enjoy the awe inspiring scenery, as expansive windows offer up panoramic views of the lake, mountains and forest.
Receive a complimentary bottle of champagne, stay five nights and get the sixth night free

Golden Bear Lodge – Punta Cana, Dominican Republic
Each of the Golden Bear Lodge’s guest rooms and suites come complete with chic furnishings, marble bathrooms, and impressive ocean views of the sparkling Caribbean. At the Golden Bear Lodge the hours will pass in a haze of relaxation and peace, making you seriously consider missing your flight back home.
Receive complimentary full breakfast served in your suite along with fresh squeezed juice and flowers, complimentary room upgrade at check-in (based on availability) and 3 p.m. late check-out (based on availability).

Gran Hotel Son Net – Mallorca Spain
Located atop a gently sloping tree-clad hill overlooking the village of Puigpunyent, guests of the hotel are afforded beautiful views of the surrounding pine valleys and Tramuntana mountain range. The hotel features include two outdoor pools, private terraces, Zen Zone Beauty Center, rose gardens, and citrus orchards. The Oleum Restaurant will tempt you with exclusive wines and innovative Mallorcan dishes made from locally sourced seasonal ingredients.
Receive a complimentary poolside cabana for your entire stay which includes a personalized pool concierge experience with fresh towels, fruit skewers and sorbets served during the day. In addition, and based on availability, guests will receive early check-in, late check-out and an upgrade to the next room category.

Hidden Pond – Kennebunkport, Maine
Unique cottage features include screened porches, fireplaces, quietly lavish décor, luxurious bathrooms, linens and amenities, and outdoor showers under the canopy of the forest. Escape to the comfort of our spa nestled up amongst the treetops or keep you feet firmly planted on the ground and explore our organic farm, there is something for everyone.
Receive a Maine inspired basket of local treats and specialties; wildflower honey, homemade blueberry jam, maple syrup, maine blueberry soda, farm stand cheese and assorted crackers, Bartlett’s raspberry wine.

Kamalame Cay – Andros Island, Bahamas
Kamalame Cay is a 96-acre private island hideaway with three miles of sugar soft sandy beaches. This barrier island is accessible only by private ferry or seaplane. A handful of gracefully decorated private villas dot this island escape and face a rhythmic ocean surf that will lull you into an attitude that requires only bare feet, suntan lotion, and a cocktail, making Kamalame Cay the perfect place for romance.
Receive a bottle of house champagne and a $100 resort credit – to be used on the property including the spa, fishing or snorkeling!

Sivory Punta Cana – Dominican Republic
Set along the shores of a private beach which stretches as far as the eye can see, this boutique resort is the ideal place to enjoy the tropical paradise of the Domincan Republic. When you visit the Sivory expect to bask in an oasis of exclusive pleasures where your worries, stress and the wedding planning grind are all banished to the horizon.

Villa Feltrinelli – Gargnano, ItalyVilla Feltrinelli, is situated along the shores of Lake Garda, a grand hotel boasting an atmosphere of casual elegance, high style, and historical importance. Outside the majestic villa lies a magnificent swimming pool, where guests can sit back and take in the splendid views over the mountains of northern Italy. All in all, when history and luxury combine with style and serenity, beautiful moments abound.
Receive a complimentary 30-minute sunset cruise on a private boat including a bottle of Italian sparkling wine.

So whether you like the traditional favorites or prefer the unique; whatever you choose make sure to have the time of your new (married) life!!!!

BBFN (Bridal Bliss for Now),
Olivia

Beauty Trends for 2011

Today Katie Gutierrez is going to share some beauty trends for 2011 that you can use for your wedding, and beyond...

Beauty trends come and go, and they can change within a blink of the eye. It is always interesting to see what comes back into style. Whether you decide to use these trends on your special day or not, it’s always fun to try something new, maybe give them a shot on your honeymoon!


Make up

LIPS – Luscious OR Nude?
FRESH for 2011= Juicy Orange Lips: Don’t think you can pull off FULL ORANGE LIPS; you can tone down that orange with reds and pinks to create a variety of looks. Based on your complexion another great color is FUCHSIA.

Prefer to be Nude? Try Cream, Taupe or Camel lips to present an elegant and glamorous look.

Another great trend to make those lips succulent is adding not just a touch, but a ton of GLOSS.

EYES
While lips can still present both sides of the spectrum, eyes are all BRIGHT for 2011. Fluorescent shades, bright colorful shades! In order to use this look on a regular basis try focusing the color just along the lash line, both upper and lower. Blues and greens are in for 2011. To add some sparkle try a little glitter.

Long lashes are a must to complete a bold eye. There are special eye liners that go right to the root of the lashes to craft the image of longer lashes. Also check out lengthening mascara or even fake eyelashes. After these simple tips you’ll be able capture immediate attention by just batting those baby blues a few times.


Face

You want that young clean look? Go for pink blush. Pinks create that young and fresh look. Also try gold and shimmery blush for a softer look.

Hair

70’s looks are making their way back. Buns, big, bouncy, feathered hair, who would have thought? These looks are great ,when you add a little spin to them. Add hair clips to create parts. Buns are easy and stylish once again. Try a high bun or a tousled bun at the nape of your neck. Pin pieces back to showcase your face. Capture that imperfectly perfect looks!


Statement Accessories
Today all accessories it shares one common theme - the bigger the better.

Hair accessories: Headbands that are flirty, feathery and embellished are in this year. This adds a dimension to your hairstyle. It creates a flawless look even if you just got out of bed. Hair accessories can be worn with any style and outfit. It can be used to pull together the polished look, or even used to create that dramatic appeal. It adds femininity, drama and a bit of romance. Hair clips! Use one or more to add sophistication and a theatrical appeal to the simplest look.

Bib style and layered textured necklaces add a striking appeal to your outfit. It is eye catching, and adds instant chic to your look.

Big bangles…lots of them – again, adding a wow factor. Big is bold. They are a great inexpensive accessory.

Belts are no longer to just hold pants up! Kimono style belts, sash style belts and belts with huge decorative pieces add that special touch to your style.

As you notice – 2011 trends are BIG, BOLD, and DRAMATIC and shout style. Try to move out of your comfort zone and be BOLD.